Sympathy and Funeral Etiquette

During an emotional time, finding the right way to express your condolences can feel overwhelming. Sending flowers is a timeless and beautiful way to offer comfort and show support. This guide is here to help you navigate the choices, ensuring your gesture of sympathy is both respectful and meaningful.

Why Do We Send Flowers?

For centuries, flowers have played a meaningful role in funeral customs. They bring a sense of peace and natural beauty to a difficult time, symbolizing the cycle of life and offering a gentle message of hope. When words fall short, a lovely arrangement can convey your support to a grieving family.

Choosing the Right Arrangement

Different floral designs are suited for different settings. Selecting the right one helps ensure your gesture is appropriate for the occasion.

For the Service

Memorial Service:

• Standing sprays and pedestal arrangements are designed to be seen from a distance, adding a touch of elegance and honor to the service.

Graveside Service:

• Arrangements like wreaths, hearts, standing sprays, or even custom-designed tributes are fitting choices. These serve as a beautiful final honor to the deceased at the burial site.

Celebration of Life:

• Arrangements like wreaths, hearts, standing sprays, or even custom-designed tributes are fitting choices. These serve as a beautiful final honor to the deceased at the burial site.

For the Home or Office

Flower Arrangements:

• A classic, tasteful arrangement sent to the home of the immediate family offers a warm and personal touch of support in the days leading up to the funeral. 

Plants:

• A living plant provides a lasting tribute. It can brighten a home or office space and serves as an enduring reminder of your care and friendship.

Tributes:

•  Inspirational items, including those with religious or military themes, can offer a special sense of faith and solace during a time of loss.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do Sympathy Flowers Have to Be White?

While white is a traditional choice symbolizing peace and purity, it is also very common to celebrate the life of the departed with colorful blooms. The choice can reflect the personality of the deceased or be a matter of personal preference, while also being mindful of the family's cultural traditions.

What is the Difference Between Funeral Flowers and Sympathy Flowers?

Funeral Flowers:

• These are large-scale arrangements sent directly to the funeral home or the location where the service is being held.

Sympathy Flowers:

• These are typically smaller arrangements sent to the home or office of the family.

How Much Should I Spend on an Arrangement?

The cost of a floral tribute can range from $75 to over $1,000, depending on its size, the types of flowers used, and the complexity of the design. We offer a wide selection of arrangements to suit various needs.

Understanding Flower Meanings

Each flower carries its own unique symbolism, allowing you to send a more personal message.

Lily: Expresses purity, majesty, and sympathy.

Rose: Signifies love, courage, and deep respect.

Hydrangea: Conveys heartfelt emotion and understanding.

Orchid: Represents reverence, admiration, and innocence.

Chrysanthemum: Symbolizes loyalty, truth, and grief in many cultures.

Carnation: Stands for love, remembrance, and admiration.

Sample Card Messages

Finding the right words to express your condolences can be difficult. Here are some suggestions:

For a Friend:

"In loving memory of [Name], a true friend. We will miss you always."

"Thank you for bringing so much joy and fun to those around you. Rest in peace, dear friend."

For a Relative:

"[Name], you were always an inspiration to me. Your big heart and fierce love won’t be forgotten."

"I will treasure every moment we shared, missing you, until we meet again. Rest well."

For a Mother:

"Not a day goes by when I don’t think of all you did for me. Thank you for being the most amazing person and mother."

"Your mother was one of the warmest and most caring people I have had the pleasure of knowing. I am sorry for your great loss."

For a Father:

"I will love you forever, Dad. May you rest in peace with the angels."

"My condolences to you for the passing of your father. There will never be another man like him."

Download More Card Messages

If you’re looking for even more heartfelt messages to include in your sympathy cards, we've got you covered. Click here to download a comprehensive list of additional sympathy card messages.

Custom Arrangements

If you are looking for a one-of-a-kind tribute, our designers specialize in creating custom arrangements. We can craft a unique and meaningful piece that honors the personality and cherished memories of the person you are remembering.

How to Order Sympathy Flowers

To ensure a smooth and timely delivery, please have the following information ready when you call or order online:

  • The full name of the recipient
  • A complete address and phone number
  • The times for the service and any viewings
  • The personal message you would like to include on the card

Conclusion

Sending flowers is a heartfelt way to offer comfort and express your condolences. Your thoughtful gesture will be a meaningful sign of support for the family. Please don't hesitate to reach out to us for personalized service and guidance.

 

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